Becoming a parent may make things look different, but you will also find that what you like, and what brings you joy will also change.
Now is the time to surround yourself with people and individuals who will support this journey and provide you with both social and you time.
How will I support myself and my child?
Everyone’s parenting journey is different. Whether you work or go to school, there are resources and organizations with programs to support your journey.
Where will I live?
Having an honest discussion with your family and current support network is the first step to discovering what expectations and resources are available to you. Once you clarify this, you can begin the process of accommodating your current living arrangements or find the organizations, programs, and local housing options that specifically apply to you.
The important thing to remember is that you are not alone, and now is the
time to start building a positive support network of individuals committed
to you and your baby’s well-being.
How can I know what is the best decision for me?
Being able to make an informed decision grounded with all the information you need allows you to determine what is best for you and your child. Taking the time to gather all information and examine all available options cost nothing, but it will lead to additional beneficial opportunities.
Where can I find the resources in my community that can help me?
Great news! You can leave with a resource guide today that will highlight all the local community organizations that can connect you to your local resource networks.
How can I get support from my child’s father?
Many states have programs that assist with paternal child support. Ask your nurse today to highlight which organization can support you with this.
Will my child’s father be involved?
This answer depends on several factors, including your current relationship with him. Despite your expectations on his level of involvement be prepared to be flexible as some may choose not to engage while others will want to be fully involved.
Does my child’s father have rights?
Yes. Every biological father has certain levels of rights that vary from state to state. For example, if you make an adoption plan he has a right to be notified and express his wishes. If you choose to parent, he has a duty to financially support and may have visitation rights.
What role does my extended family play?
Communication is key. Make sure to start having conversation before and after your baby is born to ensure that your expectations are the same. It will be up to you to determine what role your extended family plays in your child’s life.
When is adoption no longer an option?
Never. You can reconsider adoption at any time even after you have begun to parent.
What are the next steps I should take?
- Gather information and resources.
- Talk to your support network.
- Identify your current needs.
- Call the support programs and services
you need in your area.
